How to Teach your Children Etiquette
September 2, 2010 |16:15 | Kids Etiquettes By : Team X
We teach our children by example. When we practice etiquette at the dinner table, our children will see that it's important and follow our lead.
Start by teaching your kids to set the dinner table the proper way each night for dinner, so they can learn. Most kids 5 and over are capable of setting the table by themselves. First, of course, the plate goes in the middle, followed by the fork on the left and the knife on the right with the blade facing toward the plate with the top of the knife pointing to the glass or drink. The spoon is last on the list and goes next to the knife. The napkin may lay on top of the plate folded nicely or directly on the lap to avoid messy spills often incurred by small children.

Singing the nursery rhyme "oranges and lemons, the bells of St. Clement's ... " while jumping "inside, outside, inside out ... " is lost on most children these days, replaced by cell phone text messages sent in code that barely resembles words.
It may seem like a no-brainer for most people, but today's younger generations seem to lack basic social skills, which becomes evident when they try to start careers. Children growing up in a digital era seem to have a confused view about what is appropriate with friends versus what is acceptable behavior in adult and professional situations, both in person and online.
A few months ago, I ran into a neighbor at the library. As I stopped to say hello, her 12-year-old son did something that shocked me. He looked me in the eye and said, “It’s nice to see you again.” I just about fell over.
The college students who showed up with bare midriffs and never contributed to discussions during Faye Rogaski's communication classes were surprised when they weren't picked for coveted internships and jobs.





